May 22, 2023

Role-Playing Guide for Dads

Jane Magnani
Jane Magnani
Role-Playing Guide for Dads

Role-playing is a fantastic tool for children to learn and grow, supporting their overall development. Role-playing is a fun and engaging activity that can be enjoyed by children of all ages.

It allows children to explore their creativity and imagination, and it provides them with a safe and calm environment where they can express themselves and develop their social skills.

According to recent research, it was found that fathers may feel overwhelmed and short on time to participate in activities like role-playing with their children. In addition, busy schedules can make it challenging to find the time.

In this study, it was found that, "a fifth of fathers admitted: "They didn't know how to interact with their kids in games or role-play".

And a third said, "They didn't have the time to get down on their hands and knees and act the fool or join in with little ones".

So we created this role-play guide to help you strengthen your role-playing skills when playing with your little ones! It'll be a great way to bond and have some fun together!

The benefits of role-playing activities

One of the critical benefits of role-playing is that it allows children to develop empathy. When they take on different roles, they are forced to put themselves in someone else's shoes and understand how they feel and what they might be going through. This is a vital skill for children to learn, as it helps them to understand and interact with the world around them.


Another benefit of role-playing is that it helps children to develop their communication skills. As they take on different roles, they must communicate to ensure they stay in character and work together towards a common goal. This teaches children the importance of clear communication and working together as part of a team. It also provides them with a safe and calm environment where they can express themselves and develop their social skills.


Role-playing also promotes children's sense of self and their cognitive development. They get to make decisions and take on roles that are important to them, which can boost their confidence and self-esteem. In addition, it also helps them to develop problem-solving skills as they work together to overcome challenges and achieve their goals.

Apart from role-playing supporting children's emotional, communication, language and cognitive development, it also enhances their physical growth. When role-playing, children explore their movement skills; they explore moving differently, strengthening their motor skills as they engage with the world around them.

Role-playing is a fantastic tool for children to learn and grow, supporting their overall development.

Here are some ways to help you spark your imagination and role-playing skills:


Stories are a valuable tool for parents who want to build confidence in role-playing with their children. It allows children to explore their creativity and imagination. They provide examples of various situations, spark creativity, and provide a safe space to practice.

Sharing stories with children can ignite your creativity!

  • Experiment with different tones and rhythms and bring the characters to life by giving them unique voices. It's a simple and enjoyable way to start telling stories. Your child will delight in hearing the various sounds and voices you create. In addition, you can enhance the storytelling experience by incorporating gestures and animated expressions, making it even more enjoyable and engaging. 

  • Stories can inspire your imagination and allow you to create new endings and endings that may differ from the original. By incorporating your personal experiences and family stories, you can extend the tale and create something unique.

  • Stories provide fantastic examples of scenarios to role-play with your little ones afterwards. For instance, if you were to read We're Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen, you could then extend the experience by going on your own "Bear Hunt" with your children. This would allow them to fully immerse themselves in the story and bring it to life in a fun and interactive way.


Follow their lead

  • Children are role-play experts, full of curiosity and imagination; there is so much we can learn from them. So, observe them as they play, comment on their actions and reactions, and follow their lead as they explore and discover new things. Then, take on a role and join in; suggest twists to the plot and characters.


Use humour


  • Children love to laugh, so adding humour into your role-play can be a great way to build a bond with your little ones and make the experience fun and memorable. 



Here are some role-play activity ideas to get you started:

Treasure Hunts

This classic role-playing game is a fun way to get your little ones moving and exploring. Lead your crew on an epic treasure hunt. Create a map of your house or garden with clues that lead to the treasure. Get creative with your hints and have a theme in mind, such as pirates or lost civilisation.

Use playdough

Playdough is a great sensory malleable material great for sparking imagination and storytelling! You can create and mould different characters, from a worm to a snail to a rainbow; the possibilities are endless. Give your characters a fun voice or sound to bring them to life. 

Create a puppet show


Get your little ones' creativity flowing by putting on a puppet show. Support your children to create their own puppets out of sock puppets or make them out of wooden spoons. And create a story together to act up. Then, ask them open-ended questions beginning with what, how, where, etc., to support their thinking.

Have an indoor picnic

Have a picnic with your little one, and invite their friends; your little one will love choosing who is coming, pretending to feed the animals, pouring the water and serving you. Have fun making slurp and yummy noises as you sip your drink, and eat your food! Comment on what they are doing, and follow their lead. 

Set up a home corner

A home corner comes in all shapes and sizes but tends to mirror 'daily life' at home. So, for example, they often have a kitchen where children play with cooking sets, aprons, pots, pans and toys representing real objects.

They are great at letting children act out the roles they see in their homes. One minute they might be making eggs; the next putting all the family members to bed. Observe your little one at work and join in by following their lead, discussing what they are doing, and asking open-ended questions starting with what, how, where, and why to spark conversation and play. 



Camping trip


Want to go on a camping trip but can't make it happen right now? Why not create your own indoor camping experience with your little ones? Create a tent in your home, balcony or garden; gather some camping gear, for example, cups and plates, snacks, pillows and blankets and pretend you're in the great outdoors!. Pretend to build a fire and share stories around the campfire. 

Mud pies

Your little one will love cooking up lots of muddy dishes for you to try. 

Next time you go out in the garden, park, or woods. Take some cooking utensils, such as spoons, pots, pans, or bowls.

You begin by putting mud in a pot or bowl and pretending to cook it; gather some garnishes and herbs (collecting some leaves, sticks, or other items to be the different ingredients). Describe what you are doing, the ingredients you are using and the taste of your food as you pretend to taste it. When you are happy with your pie, turn it upside down like a sand castle, keep it inside, and decorate it with sticks or fallen leaves. 

I need a doctor!

Provide them with a few medical tools, like a toy stethoscope or bandages. 

Children love re-enacting real-life experiences, which is essential to their development! It can also help children learn about different cultures and professions. Also, they love to take care of their toys, so why not encourage them to role-play as a doctor or vet? Start by encouraging your little one by saying, "Ouch, I hurt my foot. I need a doctor", and watch your little one running to see to your leg!


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